Why in the world would you give a rats *** about having someones love whom obviously doesn't care about you? Come on have a little more self respect. Tell the man to take a flying leap move on and find someone who cares about you for who you are and quit wasting your time with this loser.Guys if you stoped loving your wife what could she do to win your affection back?
Sorry, but you can't change him. You can only change how you react to him. Maybe if he sees you as someone who will be able to go on without him, he will want to win you back.....but in all reality, he doesn't sound like he is worthy of you.
Try talking it out,you can solve things in one way or another.this is the only way it can help your marriage,
Cool down en think of the baby,if he doesent lisen just leave
The bible says for husbands to love their wives....
I think he could be cheating.....
Usually when people change that means there is a new person in the picture.......
omgg he is suchh a ******** u can do so much better, its usually the oppisote when some1 gets a baby with their husband the husbands usually shows more love, guess i was wrong
Just leave.He'll realize what he has lost and will come to you begging you to come back.
Babies can upset the apple cart. Sometimes because the husband is jealous of the mother baby bond which is so special. He needs to realise if you leave so does his daughter. He really is a self obsessed individual who does not deserve the gift of a good mother and child in his life because his level of maturity is unable to cope. He has no idea in fact. So I know you are probably in an emotional place right now and feeling particularly vulnerable with hormones hopping about etc but try and focus on you and your child. He matters not unless he is going to grow up and the signs suggest that is not going to happen in the current situation. Find a place to go and GO a friend a relative? Talk through this with someone or a professional ie nurse or doc. Put you and the child first. You are her mother and have responsibility there and forget about trying to make someone love you cos the simple answer is you can't ever make someone love you.
It hurts, but maybe if you stop thinking of it like that... if you are pulling at him in an attempt to get affection maybe you aren't acting the same way you used to. The contract of marriage can mess with people's heads. When you are married you are telling that person you will be there no matter what. If he's frustrated with you maybe it's because he's taking you for granted. Can you take some time away? Can you focus on other things? If you have a life outside of him it would likely make being a part of that more interesting to him... remember you're not just you to him... you might represent responsibility, obligation, or the lack of mystery that is his future. Try to separate the two... if he cannot then it's hard, but if you try to force it it will repel him just as hard as you pull, he can't come to the realization that this is what HE wants if, if he doesn't come to that conclusion with the full freedom to do so on his own accord... he'll never appreciate it the same. Maybe he's accidently taken you for granted, maybe he's taken for granted the comfort that you want and need him. Most people don't do this to themselves on purpose... why would we... try and be rational, but focus on what you need, and if he can't offer that just be honest with yourself about it. If he's stuck right now, move on and he'll catch up when/if he's going to.
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