How can I get my husband back...?

Thank you guys for your previous answers I just need more suggestions.





Lately we were having a lot of arguments which I started probably 80% of them, because his ex was always up in our business. He kept telling me I was the one he loved and wanted to be with, and to change my attitude towards him because he wasn't doing anything wrong. Well I guess he got fed up with it and left like a week ago, and now I realize the mistake I made and want him back so badly I love him with all my heart we've been together for 5 yrs. and have a 2yr. old boy. What can I do to prove to him this time I've really changed and want him to come back home. I don't want to lose him. I know he's angry and he's been checking on our son at the babysitter's its me who he's mad for arguing and humiliating him in front of friends and relatives last week. I just want him to know I'm truly sorry and it won't happen again but I don't know where he's staying I know he's w/ a relative but I don't know who.


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He's not communicating w/his ex she's the one calling my friends and making things up and my stupid self always fell for her gamesHow can I get my husband back...?
You need to prove you have changed.


Eventually he will talk to you and it will be at that moment you need to prove you have changed. BTW, talk is cheap so don't try and talk your way out. Look, act and be ashamed of what you did quitely will be your best course of action.





I do not know what you did to ';humiliate'; him, but you better fine a way to make amends.How can I get my husband back...?
he probably needs more time to think about this. just let him be for awhile. it's inevitable that you will see each other again and be able to work this out because you have a child together so just try to stay strong right now and focus on your son.
you think you changed, but 10 bucks says that you didn't change at all.
You love him, you miss him and the impact of being without him lately made you want to change your behavior but simply getting him back is only a temporary fix to the problem. While you can apologize, trust him and not fall for this woman's games, he needs to do something too. He needs to AT LEAST tell this woman to stop. You both love and want to be with each other. That's a great start right? Maybe the reason his saying that to you wasn't enough is because it's not an attempt to solve the problem. No one can control another's behavior and you can't ';make'; this woman do anything, but I think he needs to make it clear to HER that he loves and wants to be with YOU and that he doesn't appreciate her behavior.
Actions speak louder than words. Get a self help book and start to read it. Maybe get the book The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands. Tell your husband you're reading it and changing for the better.





Are you a Christian? If you are start reading chapters that are about marriage and how wives should be. You can go to http://bibleontheweb.com and search in the NT for the words ';Wives, wife, married, marriage, husband, etc'; And, take those verses to heart.
Wow you've changed in a week? I don't buy it and neither will your husband. Your just afraid that he is gone for good. True change takes time, usually longer than a week. What you need to do is show him that you've changed. you need to be put in a situation where normally you would start an argument or get on his case and then choose to do differently. And why would you start so many arguments? Arguments don't join you together, they push people apart. Do you see where your arguing gets you? Alone without a husband.