How do you heal yourself when your hearts been ripped out?

I am a 34yr old female w/13 yr old daughter and 7 yr old son. I had closed the door to my heart a few years back because I couldn't trust men. I so happened to look up an old friend from school who happened to be incarcerated and fell in love with him .I know, sounds crazy. Long story short is I waited 3 long and lonely years faithfully and devoted. My son's biological father gave up all rights and my son loved the man I fell in love with so much he calls him Dad. I was promised forever, a good, Christian life, simple and very family oriented. We married the day he was released and since that time he's lied, he's done drugs and I believe he's cheated. I went against the world for him, despite what everyone said I said I believe in this man, he's my best friend, he's my everything, he's my husband. Well, now I've moved with him, I gave up my house to move into a house HE got for us and he's betrayed me again. He's crossed the line, 1 strike, 2 strike, 3 you're supposed to be out.4.HelpHow do you heal yourself when your hearts been ripped out?
Time and prayer and I am speaking from personal experience. There are no quick fixes or remedies to heal a broken heart it takes time and at times it will be a painful process but well worth it in the end I am the same age as you so i can so relate to your question.





keep your head upHow do you heal yourself when your hearts been ripped out?
He has disappointed you and your kids. He will not change. Maybe you are just better off alone for awhile.
what was he incarcerated for?


his drug use is violation of his parole.


don't walk..RUN to the nearest lawyer.....


get out..get as far away from him as possible..


you've wasted enough time with the loser...


find someone better.....


good luck to you.
as hard as i sounds you need to get out for your sake and the sake of your children and start again, it will be so hard in teh short term but in the long run it will only get better, the hardest day will be the day you decide to go and from then on each day will slowly help rebuild your confidence. no one should be treated that way, do something for you for a change. good luck and don't give up
You are an amazing person because you love...........but , sometimes we need to be ... careful who or what we love , not because we shouldn't , but because it might be hurtful , love is supposed to forgive ,to sacrifice ,to give everything , but even the One that loved humanity had to say no....to certain humans , love is part of our life , we will love people during our lives ,well hurt when we let love go , we rejoice when we find love again ,


if you want something like a peaceful , christian ,simple family life ; then you need to reconsider what your choices have been and should be , you know that someone that lies as a way of life will hardly give you reason to trust , what you want can be only given from a man you trust ,that values you , that is committed to you because he thinks you're the best in his life ,you both become better persons ,better Christians , if today ... your life is not that way ... then you might be loving a someone that is intended to be with somebody else ... is like , you love cats ,but you have a wolf at home , so , get a cat ....


let love guide your heart at the moment you decide to move on.... let him go because you love him ...wish him happiness , and you yourself try to get it from a different source ,heal up...and love will come to you again ... but this time see if you're relatonship material , match ......
You should have trusted in reason, not in the good Christian life.


Gather the facts, analyse them, make a decision. The scientific method would have saved you.





All you can do now is blame god.
Quit being a door mat. If you love your children then you will leave this guy and teach them that you need to be more careful in selecting a mate. Look, this guy is all wrong and you have a young daughter. This guy is a liar and drug addict. Your daughter well being is in danger. She might be the next victim. Love your children first and you need to get that right now. You have been warned so now anything that might happen will be all of your fault. Be careful next time and do not get married until you spend time WITH the individual. Good luck and act now. Love yourself a little bit more, Okay/